After becoming incontinent you may be surprised to discover the Adult Diaper Lover community.
For those who have never had to think of or even consider adult diapers prior to being incontinent, it can be shocking to discover a whole community of people out there who enjoy adult diapers for some of their more...sensual pleasures.
An Adult Diaper Lover is a person who has a desire to either wear adult diapers themself or see someone else wearing diapers.
For some it's a sexual fetish. These folks require diapers for sexual stimulation and gratification.
For others it is more of a psychological comfort. This can be simply to appease a desire to wear diapers or as a way to relax and unwind.
Some folks will come home after a stressful day at work and strap up a diaper and as a result are more balanced and fulfilled.
For some Adult Diaper Lovers it's a way of life. These folks desire to wear diapers so much they have cultivated a life around being able to do it as much as possible. Even to the point where the actually become incontinent as a result.
For others its just a once in a while thing for fun and sometimes even for sexual foreplay.
Some diaper lovers are also adult babies but not always. Both of these groups are comprised of people who are generally not medically incontinent.
Thats not to say that there aren't medically incontinent folks in them though. Many incontinent folks, such as myself, tend to come to enjoy and appreciate adult diapers.
Which ultimately leads to becoming an Adult Diaper Lover. It is definitely hard to not notice some of the more stimulating pleasures and benefits that wearing adult diapers can give you.
I would also be lying if I tried to pretend that I wasn't an Adult Diaper Lover myself. I mean, you kind of have to be to write a whole website reviewing various adult diapers and then transitioning to selling them.
Of course, you also couldn't ask for a better combination in a business owner intending to serve the diaper wearing community too. I try to have a well rounded perspective. Anyways...
Here at Wearing-Adult-Diapers.com, we take the view point that even though these folks don't need diapers to contain bodily functions there is still a psychological need for them. In our opinion their need for diapers is just as valid as someone who is physically incontinent.
Its just a different kind of need.
Lets just put it like this, when you are incontinent you wear diapers so that you can have a higher quality of life.
An adult diaper lover wears diapers because they are always dealing with this overwhelming desire to wear them. This desire can be psychological torment until they actually put it on. Then they feel relief and their mind can think of more important things.
Thus leading to a more productive and higher quality of life.
So diapers improve the quality of life for us all and that's is all that we want to help with here. We want to make your quality of life better and to show you that wearing diapers is no big deal.
Whether you need to wear them because of incontinence or you need to satisfy other compulsions, get padded and get active!
There are whole communities of people built around the common desire to wear diapers for enjoyment.
Naturally, people who need to wear diapers tend to go to some of these places to meet others that are either like themselves or will accept them regardless of their need for diapers. There really is no better place on the net for acceptance of diaper wearing than these communities.
The Adult Diaper Lover knows how to appreciate a good quality diaper and can teach you of some of the more joyful aspects of being padded. While diapers come with their own annoyances sometimes adult diaper lovers are quick to remind you of some of the more annoying moments needing a bathroom break can ruin.
One of the quickest things they will remind you of is the fact that you will never miss a great or shocking moment in a movie ever again. Just one of the many perks you will now get to enjoy as a result of needing diapers.
You might not realize it until you talk to one of these people but it is actually quite satisfying to wake up in a warm and wet diaper as opposed to a cold and wet bed. It was this community who ultimately helped me to realize that the Pros greatly outweigh the Cons once you can get past the social stigmas attached to wearing them.
Not to mention, Adult Diaper Lover sites are even a good place for those of us who have to wear diapers to find romantic partners. It is far better that they are turned on by the diaper than grossed out by it. At least in my experience.
Many incontinent folks have also found the adult baby/diaper lover community very supportive and helpful.
They might choose to wear diapers but they still have lots of experience with different brands of diapers, how well they perform and whether or not its the type of thing that will be noticable wearing out in public.
They've helped many learn to overcome their fears of wearing diapers in public and around those that they love and care about. Myself included.
However, there are incontinent folks out there who despise the ABDL community and inappropriately lump all ABDL's into the crazy category due to their encounters with those ABDL's out there who are mentally unstable.
If you are one of these people who has a negative view of the ABDL community due to such an encounter you should know that not all ABDL's are like this. Most of them are very stable and successful actually.
You shouldn't shun them all because of a bad experience. I am a Diaper Lover myself and hopefully my work and effort is proof enough of that for you.
Unfortunately for the smart and mentally stable ABDL's out there, there is a small minority of their community consistently making them look bad.
What my fellow incontinent brothers and sisters must learn to recognize is its the unintelligent and repressed minds that make the rest of the ABDL community look bad. They have no sense of respect for others or themselves.
Most of them clearly lack the basic socializing skills necessary to interact with others on a meaningful level.
These are the people who invade incontinence groups and forums. We see these people all the time while doing our research around the net.
These are the people who make the entire diaper wearing community look bad and are the ones who really need psychiatric help. It is these folks who always end up on some stupid show that makes all diaper wearers look ridiculous becuase of one super excentric individual who wantss to be on T.V.
All the smart and mentally stable adult diaper lovers are out living their lives doing something more productive.
So whether you are an adult diaper lover or someone who needs to wear diapers for medical reasons, we all have one thing in common. We wear adult diapers out of some sort of need that drives us there.
Lets try to understand each other and help each other become better people.